Educating Children on Sexual Matters Based on the Teaching of Islam: The Role of Muslim Parents
Salmi Ahmad Sudan, PhD
Abstract
The increasing permissiveness towards premarital sexual activities among Malay Muslim teens in Malaysia
whose culture and religion (Islam) strongly oppose sexual activities outside marriage is indeed worrying. This
scenario may possibly indicate that Muslim children are not getting the appropriate education and guidance in
matters pertaining to sexuality amidst living in an era in which exposure to sexual content that encourages free
expression of sexuality is high particularly through the widespread access to the internet at young age. Sexuality
is a taboo subject in Muslim homes and many Muslim parents are not ready to discuss sexual issues with their
children due to embarrassment, feeling of uneasy, and have lack of knowledge to do so (Nurullah et al, 2010,
Jahanfar S et al, 2009). This paper discusses sexuality concerns faced by young Muslim adolescents at present
with the focus on the responsibility of Muslim parents in educating their children on sexual matters based on the
teaching of Islam. This paper asserts that Muslim parents should take the lead in educating their children on
sexual matters using the guiding principle of the Quran and sunnah to protect their children against undesirable
sexual behaviors that bring disastrous consequences such as unwanted pregnancies, killing of babies, and sexual
transmitted diseases.
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